Lori Hetteen

Time to Turn on Some Fun.

Hello, my friends. Yes, ten days until Christmas — and here’s the tree in Martin Place, Sydney. We’ve had some beautiful, hot weather and songs on repeat about snowfall and a cosy Christmas.

In my mind and heart, I am more than ready for a Christmas break. Work finishes this week — hooray! — and soon it’ll be time to sink into the season of joy.

I don’t know about you, but for me it’s time to have some fun — and be more fun.

Here’s my quick list:

  1. Put on a dress. It’s so simple, but it always makes people feel good to see a woman in a lovely dress. (Little kids especially love this. Why? It sings out, “Let’s celebrate!”)

  2. Ask for what you need. I’ve prepped the family that I want more games nights, less movies. More laughs, less of couples watching tv. More help in the kitchen. More help running up to the shops for groceries. Ask, ask, ask…and delegate where you can.

  3. Notice the joy. Sit by the tree. Look at decorations in your favourite shop. Wrap the gifts and think about the person who will receive them.

  4. Use puff pastry. Seriously, make that Christmas tree with Nutella and puff pastry. Fill puff pastry squares with spinach and ricotta. Or cut it into strips, sprinkle with cheese, twist and bake. It’s easy to pull something warm from the oven.

  5. Be imperfect. (This one’s for me. As a novelist, I love having control over the ending…but life is decidedly imperfect. So go on, CATHERINE…let things unfold. See what happens. Live in the now, and not an imaginary Christmas holiday).

  6. Walk a lot. Walk off the puff pastry. Walk to meditate. Walk with someone or by yourself if you need a reset. When something’s wrong, walking never makes it worse.

  7. Use the ‘pretty’ everything - that’s why you have it stored in the cupboard. The best glasses, the best dishes, the Christmas crockery and napery. You do have a little more time right now, and it feels good when things look pretty.

I wish you were here this morning while my house is quiet and everyone’s sleeping. I’d invite you out to the patio for our coffee by the pool and a loooooong girl chat about how it’s going.

If things are easy, I’d celebrate with you. And if things are hard, there’s this: remember who you are, and how hard you work in this world to bring your people together. You keep things ticking over, and you’re still going, and you’re about to gather together with some of the people you’ve been given to love.

I saw this beautiful hand-lettered sign this week, and I wanted to share it with you here. Made by Lori Hetteen - link to her work below. If we could see inside the heart of you, this is what we’d find: effort and weariness and beauty, a woman who has tried so many times to make the world at least a little shiny, someone with a huge, huge, beautiful heart.


Take care, and I’ll see you next Sunday. Sending you so much love from sunny Australia.

Catherine x

P.S. The Fun Stuff!

Hello, beautiful younger you...

Hi friends — and new friends! Quick introduction: I’m Catherine Greer, writer and compulsive baker, lover of little dogs, living in Sydney, Australia with my family.

I saw these young beauties on my way to the Tina Turner musical in Sydney last weekend, and asked if I could take a non-identifying photo. They grinned and said sure…while digging into the best burgers after a party they’d been to in the city.

Do you remember the younger you?

The teenage girl with all those dreams and energy and friends, and her whole life spread out in front of her?

I don’t think we become someone different as we grow older. I think we add on layers as we age — life lessons, wisdom, disappointment, joy. Wins and losses. And through it all, we have to remember to honour ourselves, and all we’ve been through to get here.

If no one has said it to you lately, I’d like to be the one.

You’re doing a good job.

You’re probably doing better than you think you are.

And I hope something lovely happens to you today.

Love, Catherine x

PS. The fun stuff!